I am sure you have some idea about lovemaking positions for sex, but understanding missionary is not enough to be great in bed. I’m not saying that you have to be the working Karma Sutra, but a few tricks up your sleeve will really impress.
First, let us talk about the “big five” lovemaking positions as I like to call them. There is the missionary, which is the most basic position and a great place to start you first time. Missionary gives you almost all of the control, so if you are worried about premature ejaculation, this is a good option.
The opposite of that is girl-on-top or cowgirl. She can either be sitting completely upright or sort of laying over you.
As a variation of this is reverse cowgirl, which has her riding you, be facing away from you.
Fourth on the list of the big five is doggie style, which has your partner on all fours while you enter from behind. As a variation of this, is to spoon. You still enter from behind, but instead of her being on all fours with you behind her, you spoon, lying together on one side. Spooning is the most difficult of the major five, and it do not work for every couple.
These are not the only lovemaking positions you can use, not by far! Here are some other great positioning techniques. Keep in mind that not every position is perfect for every couple.
If you are strong enough and your partner is small enough, you can do what the Karma Sutra calls “the swing.” Have her wrap her legs around you, sink onto you, and hold around your neck. Hug her close as you thrust.
While in missionary, grab her ankles and throw them over your shoulders. Try sex with her legs wrapped around your neck, then pull both legs to one side, so they are over the same shoulder. The result should be a tighter feel. You can also push her feet over her head if she is flexible enough.
A variation of reverse cowgirl has you lying head to toe. With you on your back, your partner should lie on her stomach, lowering herself onto you so that her feet are by your head.
Something fun that is easy for even your first night is a scissors move. You should lay on opposite sides, with your feet at her head and vice versa. Move together so that your legs lock in a scissors-like position and you enter her.
If your partner is strong enough, try the wheelbarrow. You stand, hold her legs, and enter her, while she places her hands on the floor.
You can also have sex up against a wall, with her bending complete over as you stand, and while twisting your bodies in almost any way you can image. For your first night, it makes sense to start slow with one of the big five, but do not be afraid to soon start getting more adventurous.